I had my dd 6 weeks ago and I knew it was going to be difficult for my sil as my nephew died at 3 days old last year. She and my brother were really supportive throughout my pregnancy yet when they came round a few days after dd was born I could see how heartbroken they were especially sil. I told them I appreciate their support but don’t expect them to keep coming around if it’s too difficult. Sil told me it helps and comes round to see me a couple of times a week as we only live a few streets away from each other. Yesterday I had to take ds to the hospital and sil offered to look after dd so I didn’t have to take her with me. Anyway we were only gone an hour but when I returned home sil had left a note to say she had taken dd out for a walk which was fine except she didn’t return until 4 hours later!! I tried calling her several times but she didn’t pick up and my brother couldn’t contact her either. She claims to have lost track of time, I knew she’d take good care of dd but I just feel a bit weird around her now, every time she holds her she sort of glazes over and I see tears well up in her eyes. I just don’t know what to do for the best?
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WhyTho ·
06/03/2019 01:33
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