I've always wondered why men decide to spin this story, as time has gone by, I've noticed it's quite a popular narrative when you meet a new guy. Before I knew it was a red flag of course I was like oh no, well I will make sure to prove I'm not like the awful girls he's dated before. Oh dear, how naive was I! Sure enough I became another "crazy ex" in their collection. Now I run a mile if I hear these sort of stories. Of course there will be men who have been victims of DV and EA and I feel like it's an insult to people like that (like the poor guy whose girlfriend was convicted of abusing him). I just really want to understand why men tell this crazy ex story to new women they meet and what's really behind it. How is it to their advantage? Isn't it better to at least try and pretend they are respectful towards women?! I've been in some horrible relationships and I'm really trying to get clued up on red flags!
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frustratedindivorce · 03/03/2019 19:59
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