I feel like life is passing me by. Inspired by a thread about how quick children grow up and it made me sad. I want to enjoy these years. I don’t want to look back in sadness and just remember how stressful and lonely it was.
We have fun times, days out ect, even they are stressful. life is just a bit dull. I always feel stressed or in a rush and like I’m just treading water.
My job is ok, badly paid but I work term time and value the time I get to spend with the kids. I never feel like I have enough money but we manage treats and stuff so I shouldn’t complain.
I think maybe I’d enjoy life a bit more if I was happier or done some things I enjoy or had some friends. But how does one go about getting these things?
My social life revolves around the kids, we’ll go the the park, zoo, cinema ect. These are my treats. I enjoy them. But they are realistically for the kids. We don’t go with friends as I don’t have any. I see photos of people taking their kids out together as a group and I feel jealous.
I maybe go out two or three times a year with work colleagues but other than that I’m in every single evening.
I want a bit of a social life or some friends with children to do things with. But it seems impossible. I know people will suggest hobbies to meet people, but there’s nothing I can think of that I enjoy. I have no interests. I’ve been a single mum since 18. Even if there was somewhere I could go to meet people, I’d have nobody to watch the kids.
I suppose IABU because I’m asking for advice knowing full well I’m going to shoot down the suggestions. Im just sick of never feeling happy. Even on the ‘fun day trips’ I wouldn’t describe myself as happy, although I like them.
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Imustbemad00 · 23/02/2019 23:19
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