I don't want to go into too many outing details here. Someone who I used to get on with as an acquaintance, but had completely different values to me, has done something to upset me when I was vulnerable. And they knew I was vulnerable at the time (unwell, had just come out of hospital after emergency surgery and having twins) and did it anyway, and continued to do it. The issue was to attempt to override me on a personal matter and when it became clear that it wouldn't work they tried to get my husband to agree to it hoping he wouldn't know id already refused. Can't give more details.
The incident is over now but I can't shake the deep, burning anger I feel towards this individual. I want no contact with them. The thing is going nc would be a hassle and I only have to see them about 4x per year. However I have never before experienced such anger and negativity towards one individual. I genuinely want to never see this person again.
The incident itself was minor I suppose. I'm usually fairly insightful with my own feelings but this has me confused as to why I feel so strongly about this person and cannot let this slide.
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Seline · 18/02/2019 23:16
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