New to all this, my boyfriends close family friend tries being involved with way to much we do as a family. Some days I try and tolerate him some other days I'm unable to stand him, it's not fair to my boyfriend that I feel like this. I'm currently pregnant with children already, anything we talk about as a family days out, holidays etc or recently we spoke about just doing something very small gender reveal for our children only as we trying to keep them involved as much as we can so they don't feel left out as there is a few years age gap from children to our unborn child now. not even our families would be there just me, my boyfriend and our children, this family friend always says 'we' as we talk about things to kids.
We recently came off holiday with my boyfriends holiday and this family friend, there was 15 of us including our little lot, we spoke about the next holiday we do it's just going to be boyfriend, me and children small family holiday and he says yeah we will have to go away just all of us, this is from his friend. We've told him numerous times it's just for kids etc, or it's just us lot for whatever we are doing, he can be too much.
It drives me insane when I'm disciplining the kids and his there trying to make comments and trying to be involved with that, I feel like it's my boyfriends dad more than a friend, not even my own father has that much input, I'm not sure if his ignorant or doesn't understand as we've spoke to him numerous times about this to his face, more so as I'm pregnant I'm not sure if it's just me being unreasonable..
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thatsitwhatnow · 10/02/2019 00:24
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