I just need a minute to breathe

[sweetbutpsycho]

Maybe 2 minutes

Or scream, cry. I don't know....

[Woopsimsorry]

What's up?

[Rachyrach80]

Anything in particular happened? I feel like that at the moment too

[sweetbutpsycho]

Just feeling very down about everything

[brizzledrizzle]

Will help to give us details?

[sweetbutpsycho]

I think I'm in love with someone who isn't my dp

[brizzledrizzle]

Ok. So is it love or is it that you think it might be because you are worrying about other stuff at home and think the grass may be greener? I know in my experience that can be the case.

[sweetbutpsycho]

The grass definitely would not be greener but I can't stop thinking about him. Don't want to touch my DP at all, I don't even want to talk to him.
I don't think I've loved my DP for a while but just haven't realised it and there's so much leaving him would affect.

[brizzledrizzle]

That's hard, be kind to yourself and take it one step at a time.

[kateandme]

is it that you don't love your dp that you putting grass might be greener on this other bloke.or do you really think you love him?
it is something with you and dp that can be worked through or the love totally lost?

[user1473878824]

Can you imagine mumsnet telling a man that it’s hard and to take it one step at a time?! He kind to yourself, it’s only your wife!

[brizzledrizzle]

It's a shit situation to be in and anybody should be kind to themselves.

[jessstan2]

Let it out girl. We're here to listen.

[flumpybear]

Infatuation rarely lasts long - it's what it develops into that lasts ..... be it love, hate or something in between

[sweetbutpsycho]

I'm not going to act on it or tell anyone irl that's what I let it out here. Thanks guys