So my 10 year old DD's school had a prize-giving ceremony this morning to celebrate their achievements last academic year. It's a very small school with only 14 children in her class - a mixed year 5 and 6 group. Of those 14 children, 4 came away with nothing. 2 of those children were new and therefore ineligible for a prize until next year, but 2 were eligible, they just didn't get one. My DD was one of these. It was no skin off her nose to be honest. She suspected she wouldn't get anything, despite getting glowing reports this week about behaviour and effort and she had mentally prepared herself for the disappointment. She got two prizes last year anyway, one of which was a big one. But her friend - the other child who didn't get a prize - was crying (and got shouted at by the teacher for being upset) as she hadn't got one for the last three years. Last year, I think everyone in her class got a prize except for her, in fact.
AIBU to think that if you're a tiny school, then you need to be really careful with prize-giving ceremonies, so that you don't give 10/12 kids a prize, leaving 2 out? The ratios just seem off to me. I'm not advocating prizes for everyone - that becomes meaningless. But I think either have less prizes or include more people in the cohort that are competing for them (like other year classes). Or just not do prize-giving in primary schools at all?
I guess I'm looking for other parent's thoughts on this, is all.
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To think that the school prize-giving could do with a rethink?
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jillowarriorqueen · 20/10/2018 00:33
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