I had been successfully self employed for 10 years. However, during my difficult divorce, I wound my business up for a couple of months to concentrate on the children/divorce/housemove etc. When I set up again, I took whatever clients I could and ended up with some real dodgy characters!
A full time job was advertised locally which seemed perfect and provided financial stability so, I took it. It is a horror story! The bloke that had the job before me worked there for 9 years and they worshipped the ground he walked on. He had left by the time I started so there was no hand over or notes. Everything had been set up his way and was hideously complicated. He didn’t even leave login passwords and there were absolutely no workings for anything!! I have tried my best, working 50 hour weeks but, even now, after 7months, all I get is ‘well when your predecessor was here....’.It is the most demoralising job that I have ever had!! I dread going to work.
I have been offered some more clients to set up on my own again...
I resigned on Friday verbally. The external agent who manages the site and has been pretty evil was more than happy to accept my resignation but, said that I had put it in writing, which I agreed. I have to work 3 months notice. His parting shot was ‘well, you have been fairly good at your job, I suppose!!’ If I wasn’t planning to leave beforehand, I would be after that conversation!!
I had to have a meeting with my immediate boss and the external agent. The external agent completely changed his tune and they said that they wanted me to stay and would change things to keep me??!!! They have asked me to keep my resignation a secret. I suspect that they contacted the bloke who had the job before me and he wouldn’t come back....The ball seems to be in my court. It is difficult as I feel that I have failed and what with the fairly recent divorce, mY self confidence is at an all time low...Shall I just resign?
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Donatello68 · 23/06/2018 13:28
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