Just spent the weekend with my MIL and FIL. My FIL is quite unwell in fact has been given a year to live following a cancer diagnosis. Anyway DH and I arrived with our youngest DC at 7pm last night. My DH’s DS and her husband (so my SIL and BIL) are already there with their 2 DC who are much younger than our DC (our oldest DC was staying with friends). Their DC were in bed so I put our Dc to bed. By the time I came down everyone was eating/has eaten. I will admit I’ve had a stressful week with the culmination of a major project - website - going live tomorrow. Now I could have easily done some work but I realise I need a work life balance. Anyway I’m trying to relax and am last to sit down and eat. Brother in law gets our phone and is sitting next to me tapping away on phone, then SIL does same. I know I shouldn’t but I start to feel anxious and a not relaxed at all. I just find it so rude. Or AIBU. I didn’t say anything but find it disrespectful of my in laws. We see them a lot more than SIL and BIL and no matter how much work we have on never use our phones at the dinner table. Or is this what people do now?
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AIBU?
To want my SIL and BIL to stop using their mobile phones at the dinner table!
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Lemonsmakelemonade · 17/06/2018 16:59
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