My parter broke up with me 2 months ago after 3 years together.
At the time, he seemed so torn up and upset about it - crying every evening for a week (we were still living together at the time) and I coped much better than I expected - probably trying to remain strong in front of him.
Now all of a sudden it feels so raw and I’ve shed more tears in the past week than I have in the 2 months previous.
From what I’ve seen, he appears to be having a grand old time now. I moved away from the area we lived together and will be back this weekend on business. I had to message him to check if there was any post for me to collect while I was there (I haven’t seen him since the split) and we exchanged pleasantries back and forth. When we broke up he said he wanted to be able to be friends and meet up for a coffee if I was ever about but he didn’t mention a thing about it in the messages (I think even if he had, I would have made my excuses as I’d imagine I may have had a meltdown) but the fact that he didn’t has upset me further. Does he just not care anymore and does he realise he doesn’t actually need to meet me for coffee as he’s coping just fine without me?
I just feel a bit wounded at the minute :(
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To suddenly be struggling with a breakup of 2 months ago
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Jellyoctopus · 13/06/2018 23:49
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