DH and MIL have a close relationship and she frequently joins us on trips out to places which doesn't bother me in the slightest. She frequently pops round the house to see how we are all doing and treats both DDs the same and me as though I'm her daughter. I love having her around, she's fun and energetic and the girls love her.
Today DH mentioned that we are planning to go to Florida in a few years time when the baby we are having in October is maybe 2 or 3 and she piped up straight away saying how much she'll enjoy going and that she can't wait to take the children to see this and that. It really annoyed me! This will be our first holiday abroad as a family and I don't want her tagging along. She always goes on about the 3 times her and PIL took DH when he was little and it just feels like she is trying to relive those memories by going with us. I don't want out first family holiday as a 5 being as a 6 with my MIL there for it.
I just don't understand why she thinks it's ok to invite herself on this trip we are planning and saving for. I'd gladly take her on one of our camping holidays but she doesn't want to go or to one of our holidays to the lakes district but she says no. That further fuels my belief it is about her wanting to relive hers and DHs time from years ago and it just feels it would ruin it all.
I've told DH she's not coming end of and he agrees but I feel like she might sulk about it and I don't want to upset her. Am I unreasonable not to want her there?
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Jordan4531 · 27/05/2018 22:43
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