He literally doesn't know the difference. Due to mental health problems I've been working from home, which is obviously great my work has been so accepting and I know alot of people are not.
But because I work from home my life and I have few friends where we live I don't get out much. So my day is basically being answerable to work or answerable to him and our family. I don't go out for drinks or coffee with friends so thats it really.
I was trying to explain my frustration to my husband last night, and he immediately got diffensive, my life style has caused this situation, he is very supportive His friends like me, he has helped arrange meet ups with me and his mates.
It was a long argument that upset me and I didn't understand. The next day I spoke to him and asked did you think I was saying my complaint was your fault. He said yes he did. I explsined I did not see it as his fault I was just explaining. Then we were fine.
This has happened multiple times where he can't tell the differencr between moaning at and moaning to.
Does anyone have any experience of this? How do you make it clear your are moaning to them rather than at them. Because to me it seems obvious!
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Husband can't tell the difference between moaning to and moaning at
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Tmtiger · 25/04/2018 23:56
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