I work very limited hours equivalent of 1 day a week and one day studying. Dh works full time. We have 3 dds from 4 to 14.
2 have some minor sen.
I do all the regular housework, shopping, laundry, feeding, school runs, club runs, school admin, medical appointments and hands on childcare in the week as you would expect due to working hours
Dh does Bill paying, cooks the odd meal orders a takeaway and will look after kids if I am not there. He also takes youngest to an activity Saturday morning. I have a small self employment where I occasionally work at the weekend.
Dh has a season ticket for a football team so is often out on a Saturday for part of day.
So here is my aibu. Last night little one was violently sick several times in the night. I was up most of the night comforting child and changing beds etc.
This morning I got up and took dd2 to her activity as normal. Dh stayed home with dd1 and dd3.
I returned back to find dh watching footy on telly. Dd3 was in her room playing.
The laundry put on was still in machine soaking wet. Machine is temperamental. It makes an audible sound when finished so surely he could have sorted it. Even when I moaned about about the laundry it just didn't register.
He has now pissed off to football leaving me with a laundry mountain.
Aibu to think he should have stepped up. I am still fuming.
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Laundrychaos · 24/03/2018 14:26
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