Found out via my mum the other day that my Auntie and Uncle are having a gathering (meal out) for their Golden Wedding Anniversary. My brother, cousins, other family members and my parents have all been invited. Yet again my husband and I have received no invite. This is the third family gathering that we have been excluded from. The entire family is invited apart from us. It’s incredibly hurtful. I have to then listen to a detailed description of the evening, what everyone wore/ate/said etc. The last gathering I was invited to they had a “no child” rule, I arranged childcare but was let down at the last minute and couldn’t go. Since then it’s like I am being punished. I’ve confronted my mum about this and she said that things are different now that I “have children and live far away”. I live 20 minuets from the city (not far away at all). I am trying to work out if my husband and I are being invited via my parents but my mum is deciding on our behalf that we can’t go. She’s old fashioned and believes that you shouldn’t attend social gatherings once you have children. She keeps saying “things are different now”. AIBU to be hurt and feel like I’m not a part of the family anymore?
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