My youngest dd, aged 9, has seriously health issues. She has 3 separate life threatening conditions which means each day is both stressful and unpredictable. Dh works long long hours. I have a son at uni and another dd who’s 11.
My dd2 has 12 different meds a day plus emergency meds should her symptoms kick off. (She was at a stage of needing an ambulance to hospital 3 x a week until recently).
Anyway..my main aim as a mum is to keep all of our lives as normal and stress free as possible. If that means internalising it all, then I will. I want dd2 to have as normal life as possible and to never feel She’s a burden or exhausting. She’s just wonderful.
Anyway..my problem is I have a few ‘friends’ who know the score yet continue to not get why I can’t make gym classes during the day while dd2 is at school, they dont seem to comprehend, despite me trying to explain, the fact I’m on call 24/7. They tel me I’m letting them down. Some more stress I don’t need. In addition, they think it’s fine to dump all their crap on me, moaning if they’ve got a cold etc. If only life was that simple for me!! Then on the flip side, they don’t even quibble about popping round with a bug on board..and cuddle my immune suppressed daughter!!
I just can’t understand why supposed friends can’t look at things from my view..not add guilt onto my shoulders, or leave my daughter at risk!!
Is it just ignorance?? Or do some folk think they can just push boundaries??
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woosey35 · 18/02/2018 19:24
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