As well as two much older boys I have dd1 (3), dd2 (17mo) and ds3 (3mo). DDs got along ok, but after ds3 was born they just started scrapping and haven't stopped. Dd1 can't tolerate dd2, she has huge tantrums when dd2 even goes near any toy. My usual response is to say no, dd2's turn, you'll get a go afterwards, here play with this instead, or oh look there's an aeroplane/car/tractor outside and the distraction used to work. Now she starts upturning toyboxes and throwing stuff around, so she gets calmly removed, plonked in the hallway and told NO. Cue more screaming. She is always trying to butt dd2 out of the way or push her and grab things off off her. DD2 however waits til dd1 has set up say a picnic for example then runs off with something from it, cue chasing pushing, screaming etc, they seem to really hate each other for all the age of them. I thought maybe jealousy of the new baby, taking it out on each other?? They're both so lovely to him but nasty to eachother. Poor ds3 can't feed in peace as I ALWAYs have to jump up n sort out some carry on or other, is anyone else's kids like this and if so how did you deal with it? Their dad is great and takes over pretty much as soon as he gets in but I actually really dread my days with them. It's always a shitstorm by 10am. Sorry if it seems like a ramble.
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westeringhome · 14/02/2018 10:42
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