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My best friend got a new BF just under a year ago. He was a friend of a friend. He's hated me since day one. He's called me names, given me dirty looks and even went as far as trying to burn me once.
No matter what he says or does she won't admit he's wrong. She blames it on me, I intimidate him and he's not good at socialising etc. This guy has also rubbed our friends up the wrong way. He has complained about her spending too much time with friends and not enough with him. When she isn't in the room he will be rude and ignore everyone else and when she enters the room he becomes a different person.
The problem arises during one party. I brought my new BF. Her BF was rude to me as usual. I said hello and he looked me up and down. Others commented on it but I ignored it. My BF said something to her (not sure on the facts as I wasn't there). She didn't speak to me for a week until I asked what was wrong. As soon as she told me I cleared everything up between them and apologised.
I raised this point with her, said we shouldn't fight with each other and ruin years of friendship over men and she cried. She blamed her BF's actions on me. She said she didn't think he would do those things etc. Our friends saw her cry and immediately demonised me. Now they won't speak to me either although they have all come to me in the past to talk about their issues with him.
I don't know what I did wrong. All I said was we shouldn't fight over our BFs and now I have no friends.
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tiny2278 · 09/02/2018 08:55
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