Something I grew up with was being labelled as ugly by my parents. I remember them telling me (after she had gone to bed) that my sis was ugly and pointing out a crook in her nose and I remember being hurt that they could be so awful.
I have an issue with being judged on your appearance because as an adult and a kid, I was made to feel the ugly one. As a grown up, all I used to hear (when I was in contact with parents) was "oh isn't she pretty" and "oh isnt she slim" about my sis. TBH I am overweight, but I'm almost worried to be slim because of the attention it will get me. In all of my life (Im in my 40's) I can't EVER remember either parent telling me I was ever pretty, not even when I got married. They just kind of looked at me and made no comment. I do truly STILL feel like the ugly one, but I only just realised it's a sign of an adult objectifying a child. Last time dad was here he was talking about a child being "pretty" and it reminded me of it all :/ I guess I probably need therapy, right??
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To feel annoyed to hear kids labelled as "pretty" or "ugly"
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IndigoMoonFlower · 07/02/2018 10:10
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