Long story. Try not to drip feed
Dps ex is always causing problems with access to his dd. So after failed mediation ( her words it's not legally binding)
He took her to court. Got an order. All went well for 6 weeks. Then she started finding loopholes. Lots of text evidence. He took her back to court to have it more specific.. Brilliant.
In court the first time he stated he would take her to dance class (as she tried to stop a Saturday saying she had dance and the judge told her not to be silly), however sometimes he gets called to work to cover so dsd will stay with me at home.. Never agreed I would take her as my DS does football, (however if I can juggle both I do) .
When going back to court the second time she tried to be awkward by stating she wanted for him not to collect for it to be someone else ? he suggested either me or his parents.. She outright said only your parents. No way Is your Fiancé to collect she's not blood.! Even tho I'd been taking her to dance when I could and do so much for her. But she knows by his parents collecting we have to de tour and makes it difficult but not impossible
Due to the time he's taken off for court he's working the next few Saturdays that he has his dd.. As only way his company let him have the time off for court, so fair enough.
So his dd will stay with me..
Now for dance on a Saturday. There's a part of me that now thinks, why should I take her to dance.? . ( which she doesn't overly enjoy) when her mum was so awkward about Friday collection at the second court sade, and was adamant I wasn't to collect because I'm not blood! . So why am I good enough to run around on a weekend.. Because it pleases her mum?
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Alwaysconfused2018 · 19/01/2018 22:39
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