My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

AIBU?

Dog off-lead in deserted play area- is this woman U?

146 replies

TridentTested · 15/01/2018 11:56

A friend of mine has a rescue dog with terrible recall.

Our local park has a fenced-off children's play area.

On weekend mornings when the play area is empty, my friend lets her dog off-lead in the play area.

She says she's not U because there's no-one there; she always puts the dog on the lead and takes her off if a child comes to play in the play area; she picks up poo; and doesn't let her dog climb on the equipment. She says having a dog running around in there is no worse than the rats, foxes, mice, cats etc. that roam the park at night.

So, do you think she's being U?

OP posts:
Report
UnitedKungdom · 15/01/2018 11:57

I'd be fine with that. No need to be too precious as long as she grabs dog immediately anyone comes and ensures no mess left.

Report
Trinity66 · 15/01/2018 11:57

If no one is there and she puts the dog back on the lead if someone arrives then no I don't think she's being unreasonable (unless the dog is dangerous of course)

Report
Soubriquet · 15/01/2018 11:58

Ah that's hard...

Yes she's unreasonable because it says no dogs in the play area

But...the dog is having a good run and she's picking up after it... tricky

Report
Pengggwn · 15/01/2018 11:59

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Steeley113 · 15/01/2018 11:59

I’ve done this when training my rescue. If people come, he’s straight on lead and taken out. Always pick up the poo too and I don’t let him wee up any play equipment. Don’t see the issue really?

Report
KipperBalloon · 15/01/2018 11:59

Yes, she is being unreasonable. Even if she picks up after her dog, this will still leave patches of shit on the grass where children will be playing, particularly grim for toddlers and new walkers using the area, who are likely to fall often / want to crawl. Yuck!

Report
GreyFluffball · 15/01/2018 12:00

It's an amazing idea and I might steal it for my also terrible recall rescue dog! (Small, fluffy, cute and not dangerous in any way, just runs like the wind when let off the lead!)

Report
BellyBean · 15/01/2018 12:00

I think even if she's picking up after it, it's leaving residue for crawling children. But apart from the poo, if she vacates if a child appears that's fine.

Report
Lethaldrizzle · 15/01/2018 12:00

I think its a bit cheeky. No dogs means no dogs

Report
Wolfiefan · 15/01/2018 12:01

If the area says no dogs then it's completely unreasonable.

Report
monkeywithacowface · 15/01/2018 12:02

As a dog owner I think it's unreasonable. I pick up a lot of crap from our garden and with pulling up endless amounts of grass you never get it all off especially if it's anything other than completely solid.

Report
LemonShark · 15/01/2018 12:02

Yeah she's being unreasonable. You can't always get every scrap of dog shit up off the floor, and what about the day she doesn't know her dog has diarrhoea until it's too late? There are 'no dogs' signs for a reason, hygiene is one of them, not just the risk of damage to a child from a dog attacking.

Report
etap · 15/01/2018 12:02

No dogs =/= No dogs except this one

Report
LemonShark · 15/01/2018 12:03

GreyFluffball I really hope you read the rest of the replies explaining why it's unreasonable before doing it!

Report
MoKnickers · 15/01/2018 12:03

Totally U.

Poo will leave residue even if the bulk is picked up. Dirty woman.

Report
TridentTested · 15/01/2018 12:03

Her argument is that cats, rats, foxes etc. will be shitting in the play area so dog's shit is no different.

Her dog is a little mongrel, not vicious at all.

OP posts:
Report
NoqontroI · 15/01/2018 12:03

Apart from the poo it sounds like a reasonable idea. Hopefully the dog will get better at recall soon.

Report
Hoppinggreen · 15/01/2018 12:05

We have a fenced play area next to our house and DD often takes our dog up there to play ( rubbish recall)
There no grass, it’s all tarmac or that rubber stuff and he’s never pooed in there anyway. If SomeOne comes she puts the dog straight on his lead and leaves.
See no harm in it - but the risk of a squidgy poo on grass in a slightly different thing

Report
LemonShark · 15/01/2018 12:05

etap Exactly. I'm not usually a stickler for rules unless they actually make sense (most do once you look a little deeper into why they're there to be fair) but you're spot on. If it's okay for her to do it, it's okay for everyone else to as well. Then it becomes a dog park. And when kids arrive everyone manages to get their dog (with poor recall!?) back on the lead immediately before the kids enter the area? You can't get every bit of shit up and its for kids not dogs. I have neither but it's arrogant in the extreme to think no dogs means it's okay to take my dog cos of a, b and c.

If not doing it with kids around or not leaving dog shit was the issue the signs would say 'kids only 10-6, dogs 6-10, dog shit banned 24hrs per day'

Report
Littlebitshort · 15/01/2018 12:05

She is absolutely being U. It is a childrens play area and clearly states no dogs. Her arguement about pests in the playground is not a good one...why add to it? Even picking up dog poo can leave some behind. So what if the dog is a resue its still a dog. Terrible recall....what happens if a child comes in and she cant grab it in time and because its a rescue it attacks the child due to unpredictable behaviour!?

Report
Bluelady · 15/01/2018 12:06

She's right about the poo. Fox poo doesn't get picked up and it's rank. I think she's entirely reasonable.

Report
Wolfiefan · 15/01/2018 12:06

Is the friend you OP?!Confused
If a fox poos in the playground it will be blindingly obvious.
A dog that you pick up after will likely leave disgusting crumbs.
No dogs.

Report

Don’t want to miss threads like this?

Weekly

Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!

Log in to update your newsletter preferences.

You've subscribed!

Pengggwn · 15/01/2018 12:07

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

LemonShark · 15/01/2018 12:07

TridentTested That's a stupid argument isn't it. You can't prevent those animals going in there. And given that a dog often does shit on its walk, I suspect the chances of the park used by dogs being full of dog shit is quite a lot higher than being full of fox or cat shit. And rat shit is tiny. That's like saying 'ah well we can't prevent 100% of shit so let's add more that we could prevent but choose not to' Hmm

Report
TridentTested · 15/01/2018 12:08

No, it's not me Grin

OP posts:
Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.