We have 3 dcs 2 are sn which is why I am a sahp.
I do everything from all the housework, admin work and handle all dcs medical things. I don't have any issues doing this as DH works long hours (50+ a week) to enable me to be at home with the children.
We don't have friends and family help apart from my parents that help as they can't handle dcs needs. I dont have friends because people get really fustrated at the fact I can't go do things and am often used by people who say they are my friends by wanting me to be there for them but not there if I need help so I distanced myself from them. I have a huge extended family but mostly all think am weird and often say my dc aren't sn they just need a good smack ECT so i distanced myself from them too. I have one neighbour who pops in to talk about her problems and needs to leave suddenly when she vented so I don't get to talk properly there either.
It's weekends like this weekend where dh works 8am till 7pm then his Christmas party at 7.30pm (I am not saying he shouldn't be going as he bloody deserves to go with how much he works) then back in work tomorrow at 8am till 7pm that I really realize how lonely and pathetic o really feel.
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To find being a sahp very lonely.
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Aspieparent · 16/12/2017 18:58
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