Friend of many years. She’s a good friend but tends to throw money at her friendships.
Since I have known her, she has been flakey. Not just with me, with everyone. If you make plans with her, she will decide on a whim to be somewhere else because someone else invited her somewhere else she’d rather be. Guaranteed she will not show up on time. We were due to live together at one point and she flaked AFTER we paid a deposit.
Recently invited her to a party, she agreed to come and then flaked. She has flaked on several dates with my friend because she decided she wanted to be somewhere else. We were due to meet up this weekend and I booked the tickets. All good. Emailed with a time. “Sorry but my friends invited me out because I’ve been sad. I’m not free anymore.”
AIBU to think this is not on? I was raised to honour obligations, even if you get a better offer. And if you have to cancel, the least you could do is let the people know at the earliest opportunity. She often offers to cancel on other plans to meet me, so it’s not me (cos i’m a bluddeh riot) but just thar she has no social awareness. You shouldn’t cancel because you have a better offer. AIBU? Everyone would tell me she’s an excellent friend and she is... but I can’t bear this behaviour.
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To be irritated by friend constantly bailing?
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Fauchelevent · 07/12/2017 21:16
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