I'm part of a social group, through a shared interest, that includes men and women from age mid 20s to 80+
I had something to celebrate at one of our events last week and as is traditional took some cakes. I don't bake and was going to buy them but I have a lovely friend who loves to bake but is always watching her weight so on the look out for people to bake for. She offered. Her cakes are simple "family" traybakes etc ideal for serving large numbers and usually very good.
Anyway, the event went well and we were socialising with coffee and the cake afterwards when one member of the group took a small nibble of a cake, already screwing her face up before tasting it, then pulled an even more ridiculous face and spat it out.
It was a coconut cake, not awful but maybe not up to friend's normal standard, a little dry.
The woman in question, I suspect, does have some food issues, mid 50s, stick thin, exercise obsessed and if we're arranging a group meal will only come if Sea Bass is on the menu. But, she knows she has some issues around food, why have the cake at all if that's what you're going to do with it?
Apart from the fact that she was rude to me, I felt so bad for my friend, who was also there.
So, incredibly rude, or justified by her food issues?
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AIBU?
to think there's no other way to look at this than unbearably rude?
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Council · 13/11/2017 10:28
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