When I was younger I was used to socialising in mixed sex groups and just had same sex friends for very close friendships. As we got older things changed and for sone reason things got more divided on gender. I guess a lot of this is natural and to be expected when getting married etc.
But now I have one friend whose OH will only come to social events if all the other OHs are too. I find this pretty offensive tbh - I’ve known him for 7 years plus - why am I not good enough to chat to for an hour or so? It’s not like I sit around talking about fluffy bunnies and make up! I’m perfectly capable of talking about world affairs and sport the same as my OH. I also think it’s sad for our single friends to be shunned by our friends husbands - just being treated as their wife’s girl mate and not people in their regard. Yes it might be more fun for the OHs if all the ‘lads’ are there too but surely it’s not that big a deal to just come occasionally on their own?! Aibu to think friends husband shouldn’t be so rude?! It comes across that he doesn’t like his wife’s friends and just sees them as hers and something to be dragged to if their OHs are too.
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Rainbowandraindrops67 · 11/11/2017 12:10
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