He has them 2 nights a week usually - every Monday and then, in theory, every other weekend Sat- Sun, but is increasingly unreliable over this. I have no problem with school contacting him about things like parents' evenings, clubs they are in etc. However, they also text him with reminders for payments etc and that causes him to text me in a rude way, despite the fact that I will have had the same text from the school!
One example is ds1's secondary school transfer application. I knew when the deadline was but they sent a reminder out and ex then sent me an angry text demanding to know why I hadn't done it yet. Next example: ds1 has a residential next year and I haven't yet paid the deposit. Again, the deadline is approaching, not past, but they sent another text and ex then fires one back to me demanding to know why it hadn't been done.
He pays me nothing (I sent him an email last week about starting CM payments and he's yet to reply) and contributes nothing to their lifestyles. It's so galling to get these nagging texts off him when I sort everything out as well as paying for it all and they've never missed out on anything. It wouldn't be so bad if he offered to help/contribute, but it's always "Why haven't you done this??" "This needs doing asap!"
WIBU to ask the school not to send reminders to him, or would it be hard for them to differentiate which to send and which not to? I don't want to be difficult but these texts from him I could do without.
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To ask dc's school not to contact ex so much
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theduchessstill · 09/11/2017 21:22
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