I was out for dinner with a mate and some of his old London friends the other week (first time I have met them). We were chatting about carers and what we do. I explained my job. One lady asked me where do I see my self in the next 5 years career wise? I said same place I am now and for the next 27 years until I hit the industry retirement age and bag my final salary pension. In my line of work there is no where up from my current potion anyway. She was clearly not impressed.
But why do I need to be a go getter? I don't want the earth. Call me Mr Unambitious in my goals but I have got where I want to be in life age 33. I'm not a millionaire but I earn an income that means me and the kids never have to worry about cash (as long as I avoid the trapping of a champagne lifestyle). I have a very secure Job. I have two properties, one I let and the other our home is everything I want in a house. I live 2 miles away from my work, makes life so much easier. I enjoy what I do. A good pension in the job I do plus a small Armed Forces pension when I retire. I have worked my nuts off in my 20s for my family (and wife at the time), and made a smart move landing the job I did and relocating. This was ambitious in its self one could argue, I beat of over 2000 initial applicants. I know I'm in my 30's but what's wrong or negative about wanting to put your feet up career wise and ride it out for the next 27 years when you have what you want in life and a career that maintains it? Why should I stride for more? Has anyone else ever been given stick for being unambitious?
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1DAD2KIDS · 09/11/2017 20:03
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