Ok so this may sound very trivial to some but due to a HUGE back story ( that would take years to go into fully) this has made me so angry.
We have chosen a different primary school for our DD from the one DS attends. Today I got home from collecting DD and as DS wasn't back yet and I had told him we needed to collect his large musical instrument ( he walks home as he's 10yo and school is just down the road) so I walked to meet him. I was met on the way by him and another DS 12yo ( who also attended the same school but we removed him aged 9) both looking a bit sullen. When I asked what had happened they said that they were at DS 10yo school watching the football match against neighbouring school with lots of other children. They were having a bit of a kick about so HT had asked them if they were watching the football they said they were so he said to watch the football or go home. They walked to the pitch and stood with a group of other children from the various schools ( both primary's playing the match and the feeder secondary) HT then walked over to them and said "little justneed and littler justneed I told you to go home". They replied that they were watching the football he said "you're not - go home" so they left.
I then walked back to the school with them, collected the musical instrument and walked up to the football pitch - crowds of people there - at least 30 children lots of them unaccompanied. None of the other children had been sent away some of whom were also kicking a ball and also a couple had been being silly according to a parent watching (but not my DC she said). DS12yo's friend confirmed it was only my two DC's asked to leave. I know they were singled out as that is part of the back story and the reason my older DS was removed due to bullying -by the HT and deputy HT at the time ( who is now the HT). And the reason why DD has not been sent there.
I know I sound like a crazy parent that won't accept there are issues with my child but I have been proven correct in what I've been saying for years. Previous HT left under a cloud after losing a court case for discrimination against a disabled girl. Current HT and Chair of Governors (also part of problem back story) were arrested for assault on a child at the summer fete - no charges against HT but CoG was charged and admitted guilt - so she also left under a cloud - eventually. Also at the other schools my DC's attend we have never had any problems. They absolutely love us as a family and my DC's are bright, mostly well behaved and described as lovely children by their teachers. So - AIBU if I go to school tomorrow to ask HT why my children were singled out in being sent home? (I probably won't but I'm so angry right now I feel I want to just to make the point that he is so obviously unfair to my DC's)
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justneedtoNCaminute · 09/11/2017 17:49
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