Just wondering what you think..my fiance has a home beside his family's old childhood home and all his family are very close. I come from a family where we are scattered around the country so it's rare when we meet up but when we do we really enjoy each others' company. His family are lovely and very kind to one another but because they live close by they see each other more. One of his sisters in particular drops in a few times a week and now has started to drop in when my fiance is away. I am starting to feel unnerved by her just opening the back door when she knows her brother is away. I gave her my phone number and she is a nice genuine person. However I would never call to my brother's house without ringing or texting first so maybe it's just me?
The other day I had the curtains drawn as it was evening and I locked the back door. She must have tried the back door as I heard from my fiance that she had tried to ring me after she found the door locked. I saw her missed call, but when I rang her back her phone was busy because she had rang her brother saying his house was locked up Today she asks my fiance why I didn't ring her back ! I know he owns the house but I get the feeling she wants to treat it like an extension of their childhood home which is a few feet away and is now rented out. I own a house that I now rent out and we split bills. Aibu to find this unnerving? She's much older than me and is retired to put in context. Sometimes we are snuggled up and she walks in
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Azalea96 · 24/10/2017 18:09
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