I’ve really no idea if I am or not.
In 2013 I was raped. I see a therapist and I told her but no one else. I told one friend in the spring this year. I’m no contact with my family.
A week ago I met a friend for coffee. She told me that her adult daughter had been raped. She went into a lot of detail about it all and said she is taking leave from work to stay near her daughter at university.
I just feel so incredibly jealous that they have the sort of relationship that I don’t have with my mum and because I would have wanted the same support but didn’t ask for it from my friends.
I can’t decide if it’s better to step back from seeing her for a few weeks whilst I get a grip, or if it’s better to keep things normal with her and just feel a bit shit after seeing her because I feel jealous. She has a lot of close friends, so it’s not like I would be dropping her at a time of need.
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To step back from this friendship.
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Caulk · 22/10/2017 21:41
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