we live in an apartment building. we've been living in our place for several years and have always enjoyed close relationships with neighbours. dh and i are godparents to one of my neighbours children and do free babysitting when mums in the building are stuck etc. we do what we can to be helpful and friendly!
hubby and i came home after a very long day on thursday. someone had left lots of mess outside our front door. i noticed that we had gotten new next door neighbours (a couple) and was surprised under the circumstances. since it was late, i did not go to introduce myself. there was lots of noise and loud music coming out of their apartment until 2am. hubby tried to go and say hello on friday morning, but the man said "i don't have time to talk with you" and shut the door. i got woken up 3 times on friday night, all after 1am from the noise, and although they are all moved in already, there is a constant dragging of furniture until late at night. maybe they are still not sure how they want things placed? they go in and out their place a lot and slam the door shut every time. some of the other neighbours said that they were excessively banging on our door thursday afternoon (we were not in).
it's difficult for me to fall asleep as i am now in my third trimester and am extremely uncomfortable. i haven't slept in 2 nights already, and can't rest during the day with the door slamming every few minutes and the dragging of furniture. i'm exhausted and a bit emotional.
hubby remembers being in college with this guy, but it seems that he does not remember dh. i don't want to embarrass or upset them, but don't know if or how to tell them to tone it down a bit. during our time here, 2 families and well behaved college guys have lived next door, and i have never heard so much noise. aibu to welcome them and mention something politely? should i wait and see what happens?
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nosleepforme · 21/10/2017 23:33
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