I've had good friends through school and uni etc and still stay in touch, although we live in different places now and I must admit I feel like it's often me driving arrangements for the two groups to meet up etc. I haven't always and we've all always been a bit relaxed and disorganised so I can see why we perhaps aren't as close anymore.
Working in a management position I am a bit isolated at work in that I can't really be too matey with anyone in particular there, and there aren't other managers.
I've also had lots of friends at local clubs and things but I've moved since and all were more of a group thing than really close.
Although I'm a probably a fairly private person and not the most amazing social butterfly I am quite friendly and easygoing so I don't think I'm friend repellant and to be honest I don't mind too much as have DH and family and baby on the way, so meeting up with friends a couple of times a year works - but most people I know have close/"best friends" and I feel a bit odd/embarrassed when I think about it?
It might be a bit to do with the fact that they are all single and still in London and out quite a lot, whereas I'm out in the sticks and married
Anyone else been in same boat?
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LotsofFireworksTonight · 20/10/2017 20:40
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