For context, my husband is a loving, supportive and wonderful man and the best father to our toddler.
A while ago my father and brother invited my husband to a sporting event which will take him away over night and for a full 24hours. This event is a 5 hour min drive from our home in London. My husband is constantly teased by my family for being under my thumb and so always feels pressure to say yes to invitations of this nature to be included and so that we won't have the piss taken out of us (my father and brother are jokers but it is meant with love and they really get on with my husband). Any way the problem is that when he was invited we knew we were pregnant but it seemed such a long way away we agreed that he should say yes and go and have fun. Now I am 38weeks pregnant, I spent last night in hospital with stomach pains and I am suddenly feeling very insecure about him going. Not only will him and all my family be over 5 hours away but I will be at home with my toddler alone. If anything happens tonight I am terrified that he won't be able to get back in time and he will miss the birth and that my toddler will have to witness me in pain. AIBU to suddenly want him to not go, the tickets for this event cost a lot and it would mean my father would be out of pocket with it also being too late for him to invite somebody else.
I don't know... part of me feels cross that my dad asked my husband when he knew how pregnant I would be and another part feels cross that my husband said yes. However I should be cross with myself because I did also agree to it ages ago and am only now feeling the panic! Don't know what to do and don't want to resent anyone if there is a bad outcome. Some advice please..
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AIBU to be upset that my husband is going away to a sporting event when I am 38weeks pregnant.
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Youaremyfavourite · 20/10/2017 11:57
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