I am presupposing that IABU. I have name changed. I won't claim I have been around forever as is the convention. But around penisbeaker I stopped lurking. Also. It is long and I probably should say
in short: children harassing my DD so I am moving her to a different school. This week seems worse. Should I keep her off next week?
Long version-
My DD has had on going problems with a girl in her class for almost three years. They used to be friends. It ended the day after my DD won a maths award and the girl along with her two older siblings tied my DD to a tree at the end of a lunch break (and a threat to strip her naked).
The following term I had abusive texts from the mother. My elder DD spent most of her lunchtime with her sister and on days she didn't a member of that family would attack the younger DD or accuse her of shouting at them. Which she probably did she does shout when criticised heavily.
My DD spent the next year in thinking bay at lunchtime for shouting at members of this family to leave her alone and sometimes insulting them. On which we made progress on but DD was F
Frequently with scrapes and bruises from being pushed to the ground, clothing torn, held against walls by her throat and being punished for shouting by staff.
More abusive texts to me. Calling my daughters sluts, saying I am inadequate etc
Mother of said children started shouting at my children (that they should be in care, they better watch their backs) if they were without me (between school gate and pick up point). I started picking up from gate. Older DD now left for secondary.
Mother of these children since started staring at my daughter getting changed for her out of school swimming lesson. I changed her lesson time after another paren't mentioned it.
Children of this family started making threats about getting me and my daughters and son. Texts from mother stop as I change number.
Criminal damage to my house and car.
I have withdrawn my son's nursery application as the mother works at the local one. Not citing any reason. Though of course it is because I would not trust this woman with the care of a cardboard box.
I am now in the process of securing a new school place for my daughter.
Yesterday parents of two other children in the school contacted me about this. One of them calling 5 times in less than an hour until I answered. Car tyre punctured.
I am struggling with agoraphobia and panic attacks.
These parents have essentially said word for word the last text received from mother of the family that have a problem with me.
Would I be unreasonable to remove DD from school next week and get her started at new school after half term?
Most of it does seem directed at me but I am worried they will get wind that she is leaving and up their efforts while they still have a chance to hurt her.
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To remove DD from school for a week
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Nothingworththatbed · 12/10/2017 14:06
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