I am a SAHP so naturally do most of the pick ups and drop offs
On a particular day I have asked my DP to pick up DC as I have an appointment for some medical treatment.
That's fine.
DP then realised DC has an after school activity,
This is how the conversation went - who is unreasonable
DP: what about the after school activity?
Me: we'll you'll have to go.
DP: well that means I have to take half a day off
Me: when I ask you to pick up DC it implies that you are doing the pickup and anything else after.
DP: No it just means I'm doing the pickup and I carry on working when I get home
Me: That is not a normal way of thinking. No parent does that.
For context in the past DP has picked up DC and carried on working. I have then come home from an appointment around dinner time and have had to sort out dinner for DC.
On days when I have treatment I am very tired and often nauseous.
So am I being unreasonable in thinking that DPs attitude is not normal and that all the stuff that I do after school should be done by DP if I'm not there or is DP correct in that I need to spell out what needs to be done.
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WhatIsGoingOnNow · 11/10/2017 15:39
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