Dating a guy for a year, both late 40’s. I’ve one teenager who lives full time with me, he has no kids. I’m the higher earner by a fair bit but also more commitments, debt due to divorce etc. He’s quite comfortable. I feel more of our socialising costs fall to me. We don’t take turns as such but if he’s at mine, I’ll cook and buy alcohol and he’ll get some of the drinks if we go to the pub first, with me getting one in maybe. I drive us around more than he does. If other people offer to pay he’ll happily let them whereas I usually argue! It’s nothing on a par with Tequila/mince man but I just feel I’m shouldering more and he’s letting me. I’m not sure if because I earn more this is fine, but he does know the drains on my finances too. I have in the past been very foolish over money and paid for things for other people that would make you roll your eyes at me so I’m trying to be fairer on myself. I struggle to talk about money and would hate to be seen as grasping. Advice and views appreciated!
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