DS arrived back from a meal out with ex and his family at 10.30pm. All fine, and he said it was OK.
When chatting to him about how his family is (they were visiting from the other side of country) he was talking about how crammed it was in the car. Turns out he'd been put in the middle of the back seats, with no seat belt. I asked him why he got in, an he said that his dad always drives him in his van, putting DS in the back, unrestrained.
I'm furious, and have told DS to please refuse in the future, and just to call me.
Background is that I've been separated from ex for around 13 years now (DS is 15yrs) and don't really deal with ex now, as it always ends in abusive attitude. DS is old enough to see himself out to the car, so thats how I leave things now. Rarely contact him as I don't have any need ( he doesn't pay any support, and does the complete opposite of any thing I ask, so I stopped trying years ago.
In these circumstances, what can I reasonably do?
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SouthernNorthernGirl · 08/10/2017 00:18
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