Sorry I tried to find a rant section but couldn't! I think I am just feeling a bit low and moody cos I am due on but just wanted to get it out there because I honestly don't have anyone else to talk to.
I wouldn't probably class her as my friend anymore, but her little one was born 5 months after mine so we was pregnant at the same time. We used to always chat and I was always there for her, giving advice and so on! When she and her husband had an argument, I offered her a place to stay cos she had nowhere else to go.
Now she works full time again, I understand she is busy but I am too because I also work, a student and also a mother. I have been up to hers a couple of times, I ran errands for her, went and seen her to make sure she and her LO are OK, and yet she simply doesn't have any "time" to message me and ask me how I am? All it takes is a phone call or a text. We did plan lunch before but my son was extremely poorly he had to go A&E on the day so I said we will definitely do it the week after but when I messaged her the day before, she didn't reply until two days later.
I think I just feel pissed off because everyone takes me for granted because I do anything for anyone if it means helping them! She hasn't messaged me for about a month, I sent her a text and said hello etc but it was very basic. I think sometimes, you are far better off on your own to avoid disappointment! I haven't got any Mummy friends, I was hoping mine and her LO could play together but it never happens seeing as she never looks after her anyway as she is always at her grans! sorry this is probably an unreasonable thread but just wanted to get it off my chest xx
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Mittens92 · 26/09/2017 07:40
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