DD13 has just started secondary school. She's a divil for leaving stuff down, not putting things away, leaving stuff behind etc etc. We've been trying to work with her for years trying to teach techniques so she'll remember to check she has everything with her.
It's lashing rain today so I told her before she left to catch the bus to school to put her jacket on. Turns out she can't find it, has no idea when she last had it or last saw it. She remembers seeing a jacket on top of the lockers in school and is hoping it's hers.
She went to school knowing we're not annoyed with her, but being very clear that if she's lost her jacket she has to pay for the new one with her savings. It'll cost €65.
AIBU to insist she pays for it because:
- We can afford it
- She's only just started secondary and is still getting used to moving classrooms and having to bring all her stuff with her
- The money she'll be using was given to her as presents
- She's a really good girl who causes us very little trouble
Hopefully, she'll find it in school, but if she doesn't we'll need to make a decision.