MIL asked if she could spend a few hours with DS alone, DS is 9 years old and is developmentally 9-18 months old and also extremely small for his age ( fits in size 2-3 years clothes and even then can be too big depending on shop)
MIL not long ago dropped DS back home and when I went out to meet them I found DS was sat in the front seat and not in his car seat ( due to his weight and hight he needs to be in one) when ask why he wasn't in his car seat ( I gave it to her earlier on and even plugged it in the car ready) she said that every time she went to put him in his car seat he would cry and she didn't want to upset him and make him stressed.
When I went out to meet them the seat belt was right over the side of his face as he was obviously too small to be riding without a car seat but it didn't change MIL opinion on the situation as she said " it was just across town and he was upset"
I know it can be difficult to hear children cry but surely his safety comes first? It isn't like she was wrestling an average size 9 year old in a car seat so it is a lot earlier in that way but now I know when we go out in the car he will want to sit in the front with no car seat again!
DS is mainly non verbal ( can say a couple of odd words here and there but nothing regular) and explaining safety too him and why he needs to be in the car seat is too much for him to understand!
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To refuse to let her have my LO again?
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BLUESEAPARADISE · 23/08/2017 14:07
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