Can't decide if I'm being precious and unreasonable or totally justified in my hormone addled state.
We're in the midst of our 3rd IVF cycle (miscarriage on first round and nothing on the second round, if that adds context) and DP wants us to travel to see his parents, once our embryo is put back in, in a few weeks time.
DP's parents are divorced, so it would mean travelling to the Midlands from London, staying a few days in DP's home town (family party to attend while we're there), then travelling on to the North East to see DP's mother and step dad, staying a few days with them and then driving back down to London.
I get on well with both DP's parents and I can see the benefits of a mini holiday but I'm stupidly paranoid that all the driving and travel will be detrimental to the little frostie sticking / staying put. I'll also be away from home and still pumping myself with hormones.
I have compromised and suggested that we go to the Midlands as it's a shorter drive and see his DM another time. DP has become sulky that I'm wanting to veto his 'road trip' and thinks I'm being precious, which perhaps I am
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To not want to travel post IVF transfer?
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MelbourneClown03 · 24/07/2017 21:37
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