33 weeks FTP, very emotional and tired so may be over reacting
Just moved into a lovely 2 bedroom middle floor flat 3 weeks ago. Only moved down the road so know the area obviously, actually know our down stairs neighbours who are lovely and the upstairs neighbours are really nice as well from the few times we've met. The baby's bedroom is perfectly placed as it's not actually attached to the downstairs or upstairs flats so I'm hoping I won't cause too much disturbance for anyone.
I definitely think you've got to have a bit of give and take with noise but the child next door is absolutely wild...
Every single day from when he gets back from school until around midnight he is on xbox live (i assume it's this or otherwise he is talking to himself) swearing, screaming top of his lungs, high pitch shrieking and the worst banging very hard on my bedroom wall when he gets frustrated at the game. He bangs so hard you can hear it from the other side of the flat. He's 13 years old so not exactly a little child.
Saturday night I was woken at 4am by it so I banged back. I spoke to the father when I saw him in the street and just asked nicely if he could ask his son to just not bang on the wall. He just laughed at me and said "It was the weekend!" and walked away
This is seemingly the problem, his parents don't care, it's been said to me they are rarely there and are in the boozer a lot. They have late night parties on weekdays (I cant actually hear this as its on the other side of their flat). Previous tenants had the same issue. They never take him out or do anything with him so I feel genuinely sad for him tbh.
Just in the last hour he's banged on the wall 3 times, I banged back but he hasn't shut up and I feel a bit of a nob having a banging match with a 13 year old who isn't being told to not do that. What can I do though? FTP and I'm physically struggling a lot I just wanna rest in my bed I'm so tired 😓 am I being a bit cranky about it? I would like to have babies moses basket next to me to begin with but how can I if this child is bashing on the wall? We're with the same landlord. I don't really wanna have to complain about it but I don't know 😣
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