A very good friend of mine's husband decided to have a 40th birthday party in a villa. They are well off and wanted to celebrate for a week surrounded by friends - fair enough. I was up for it, even though we couldn't really afford it, as it would be fun and a chance for all the kids to get to know each other. We paid a small deposit and agreed to go (five couples in total), thinking easyjet flights would be a few hundred pounds and if we cooked in the villa it would be manageable.
Since then, we've had some bad luck financially and had to pull out of the holiday, partly as the flights were coming in at more than I earn in a month.
My friends DH has asked me to pay the rest of what we owed for the villa. I am totally fine doing this as I don't want them to be out of pocket because of our mistake in originally agreeing to go. (If the boot was on the other foot and I was well off and my friend was struggling to pay basic bills, there is no way I would ask for the money, but that's beside the point).
The thing that galls me is in the photos on Facebook there is another couple on the holiday - clearly in the room that was 'ours.'
I don't mind covering a hole we left in the bill but I don't think its fair for us to pay for someone else's holiday.
What do I do - should I say 'why don't you ask xxx for the money as they stayed in the room?' Should I ask them to pay me the deposit back? Or should I just suck it up and pay them?
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Drivingmenuts · 25/06/2017 18:00
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