E.g. father's day, kids bdays?
We try and do some family stuff still, we both had parents who divorced and for both of us the fallout made them being in the same room unbearable. I don't want to put our 3 boys (12, 8 and 3) through this. I still have a lot of affection and respect for my ex, just because I didn't want to be married to him any more does not mean that I dislike him and although it can be tough, we are trying hard to remain on good terms. I really do want this.
It causes a big problem for my boyfriend however. He says it's not normal to want to spend time together, we're not a couple any more and should stop trying to behave like we are.
I don't care what is normal for other people, this felt ok to me and exh until boyf pointed out that he finds it difficult to deal with. It now causes a row whenever I am likely to see him, I've invited boyf too to birthday stuff e.g, thinking he felt put out that family stuff happens without him but it's not that, it's jealousy. Which I don't get because I am not a jealous person really.
So aibu to want to spend time with my ex?
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MrsMortified · 19/06/2017 07:03
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