Don't know if the title is really clear but didn't know how to word it.
I have a DS who is 1.5. He is very sweet natured and smiley and seems to attract a lot of attention - especially from lovely old ladies. Many of them mention how friendly and placid natured he is etc.
But what I have noticed is I do this weird thing where instead of saying Thank you... I start saying things like 'just wait half an hour and you will see what he is really like' or 'he had a good nap that's why he is so quiet'
The thing is... he is placid, that's his nature, so why do I make things up to make him seem different to what he is.
I used to do that a lot when he was a baby as I couldn't relate to what the mothers in the group were going through ( I got lucky and he slept well and hardly cried) so I pretended he didn't sleep and I had the same issues as the rest of the mothers. I guess I understand back then I was trying to fit in but why do I do that now with total strangers.
Don't know what my AIBU is.... it's more a question as to why I am being so weird!!
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PonyPals · 16/06/2017 06:23
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