Sorry wasn't sure where to post this please be kind. My very tall DD 12 is nearing the end of her first year at a large Secondary and has had no friends either in or outside of school. This has been the situation for the last 4 months when a previous friendship group broke down as the other girls ditched her to be with the girls they thought were the 'popular people'. After a bit of nastiness on their parts things have calmed down but they still scowl it her and me if we pass them in town or anything. She seems relatively ok about this and won't really talk much about it but I do worry about her. She did cry yesterday but not directly about the lack of friends but she did imply the girls her age looked a certain way and acted a certain way and she didn't want to be like that. She isn't image conscious and isn't massively confident or pushy enough to push herself into other friendship groups. She goes to guides and takes part in one team sport activity a week but none of the girls at these seem to mix outside of the activities but then she doesn't seem massively in with anyone at these either. I have tried to encourage her to take part in some after school and lunch time activities which she did briefly but I am at a loss for how to help her. Should I wait until she asks for my help or just try to remain close and occasionally have lunch out, go shopping (she is in ladies clothes and almost in tall ranges whereas her peers can still pick up 12/13 clothes) or have a day out somewhere. Any advice gratefully received.
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