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To be sick of judgemental threads

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WhataPrettyBlossum · 24/05/2017 16:56

I know I don't have to read them, I could just skim past and keep living in hippy la la land where my head is buried deep in unicorn sand, but surely I can't be the only person absolutely sick to death of judgemental posts. For example...

'Why do women wear gym clothes if they aren't going to the gym'
'Why would anyone spend XXX on XXX'
'Why do all young girls these days wear khaki and beige'
'Why has my neighbours friends daughters pug got a hideous collar on'

... and so on.

WHY can't we all just let people do as they please and not feel the need to get involved.

and breathe

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FishInAWetSuitAndFlippers · 24/05/2017 16:58

You've just started a thread judging the judgers Grin

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PurpleDaisies · 24/05/2017 16:59

I get sick of threads whinging about other threads. I freely acknowledge I'm a big grump though.

Isn't it better for people to vent on here than at the people in real life?

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amicissimma · 24/05/2017 17:00

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soapboxqueen · 24/05/2017 17:01

If I start a thread judging people who post threads about people judging People, it would be 3 dimensional judging.

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Reow · 24/05/2017 17:02

🎶 been standing most our lives livin' in a judges paridise 🎵

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WhataPrettyBlossum · 24/05/2017 17:04

I am fully aware this is a judging judgers thread, although I felt better for writing it down! We all love a good judge now and again, but I don't think it all needs to be written down every time for all to comment on, ya know?

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Whiskwarrior · 24/05/2017 17:06

Judgeception!

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innurendo · 24/05/2017 17:07

I'm sick of judge judgers, I suspect they are quite rough people to be honest.

pops to waitrose for some naice ham

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Reow · 24/05/2017 17:09

Everyone judges. People who say they don't are lying.

I'm judging a women with ridiculous fake eyebrows at the bus stop this very minute.

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Reow · 24/05/2017 17:10

And I wear leggings pretty much every day or my life. Feel free to judge me! Grin

Could not give a shiny shite.

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Reow · 24/05/2017 17:11

Innurendo I've just been to Waitrose. Got some lovely pate Wink

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Missb00 · 24/05/2017 17:11

Reow stop staring at me eyebrows

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Highalert · 24/05/2017 17:13

Some people are just losers who get to feel slightly better about their own lives by judging every little thing that people do differently to them.

Boring fuckers.

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alltouchedout · 24/05/2017 17:14

WHY can't we all just let people do as they please and not feel the need to get involved

So let the judgers judge as the please OP, and don't get involved ;)

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Whiskwarrior · 24/05/2017 17:14

Ooh, the other day, I was watching a woman who had a tattoo of an eye on the back of her neck! Really badly done, too.

I wasn't judging so much as Shock

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Reow · 24/05/2017 17:14

Missb00 stop staring at me leggings. I'm not even wearing a long top with them either. Common as arses.

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WhataPrettyBlossum · 24/05/2017 17:17

It was mainly an overly judgy guy at work who started this off. He was clearly trying to make another colleague feel very stupid as she'd just spent £150 on a fancy cctv doorbell (she was recently burgled so likes the extra security) not as if it's even relevant, she can spend her money on what she likes. Another conversation with the same dude about engagement rings, he couldn't comprehend why on EARTH someone would spend £2k+ on jewellery and made sure anyone wearing/anyone who had ever bought an engagement ring know how he felt.

Live and let live

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Missb00 · 24/05/2017 17:19

Reow leggings are not trousers, I repeat, leggings are not trousers

Wink

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Reow · 24/05/2017 17:23

Wanna bet? Grin

Would post a photo but I might out myself. To be fair I do a lot of yoga. Does that excuse me? And these are sweaty betty leggings that don't show your pants through them.

Remember Leggings Lorraine on The Royle Family? That's probably how people refer to me.

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Reow · 24/05/2017 17:23

Do you really have the daft eyebrows Missb00?

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innurendo · 24/05/2017 17:25

"I'm judging a women with ridiculous fake eyebrows at the bus stop this very minute."

OK, even though I'm a judge judger and a judge judger judger I have to admit I judge those awful fake eyebrows, they are bloody ridiculous.

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KimKardashiansArse · 24/05/2017 17:28

YANBU. MN full of twats at the moment as usual

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Missb00 · 24/05/2017 17:28

No reow it's not me!

Although was tempted to say yes so that you went over and spoke to eyebrow lady... damn my stupid conscience

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Maudlinmaud · 24/05/2017 17:30

Reow judges paradise Grin x 80 billion.

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Reow · 24/05/2017 17:31

I think the key is to not care what other people think. Then you're free.

People are v welcome to think I'm a twat. Some of them are twats too! I don't think we should take ourselves too seriously.

Mind you I would never tell someone outright that I didn't like what they were wearing or whatever. I wouldn't want to hurt someone's feelings because my opinion is different to theirs. I just judge quietly in my mind. ✌️☮️

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