I really would appriciate views - I can't tell if being reasonable or rational anymore
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We love our house - the house itself v much . Have debated move over years but never have . Been here 15 years - lovely community and fantastic house which we have done up to our taste . The bedroom and kitchen and views give me joy daily .i never want to leave this house if I could stop some things ..
The neigbour is allowed to walk across our garden to get bibs out allow acces to builders etc
. When dc small it was all bonkers anyway so it didn't bother me much
As I get okder this bothers me more as does hearing voices thro the walls including neigbour having sex
Then ... our gardens are 12 feet wide and long - for many years I was v v lucky in that the neighbours didn't use that part of the garden exept fur sheds
My neigbour has now , into the second summer , been building a studio - he has put it within 3 feet of my shed - he is perfectly entitled to do so .. I so enjoyed my little sumner house and sat there daily - it was my special little place
The neigbour is going to play guitar with friends there
Listen to music
Read potter - I wd too -it will be fab wen it's done .
The trouble is he sits so v close to me ( he entitled to use fardennas he wants ) and it feel s really intrusive .
He has been building for 2 summers now and up until now has banged 6 days a week right next to me ( now agreed to 5)
He says he cannot tell me when iir will poss end . I explained that folk can anticipate an end then they can just get on with it .. he says it will take as long as it takes .,( asked only for approx date to say 6 months ish)
So with all the banging and the studio I feel really unsure if I will enjoy the garden again
I tried to sit at the top but this is where he passes thro my garden quite a bit - bins building materials etc so I only feel the middle of my garden is 'mine ' now .
I love love the inside of my house
But
I can hear thro the walls
Pass thro garden
These I coped with as love it so
But .. now this I'm not sure .. we viewed a great house in near by area today - if I didn't love my house -?id love this one - it's detatched so wdnt hear neighbours thro walls
It's got a private garden
- privacy
My dh wants to buy it .. I feel sick - I'm attatched to this house but it drives me mad ! Feel panic . My friend said he 100%!sure u want to move - well I don't - im just nit sure
I can tolerate what round me ! Wish I was a chilled person !
Anyone else had similar ?
I've been craving a detatched house.. are they really as good as imagine ? And if so are they worth moving to a less fab area to get one ?
There are mostly terraces here - the detached ones are way way above what I could afford !
So fab area and all these issues or bioring area and detached ?? !
Is it really quiet in detatched ? I don't want to build a false fantasy about it as I don't want to leave here if it's not a life changer !
Sorry to go on and on
I'm loosing my marbles ! 😄