I'm just wondering how most families split their finances either with children or without?
I have a DD and run a little online business. It's never earned much but it's enough to pay my rent bills and some of my other expenses. My partner works full time and takes home just over 15k a year whereas I take home about 7. So we're not big earners but it's enough for us to manage.
I look after DD five days a week (she's in nursery the other 2) and obviously work those days and work after she's gone to bed (she's 16 months). Other than that I do the majority of the cleaning, housework, food shopping etc. We have no joint bank accounts, our money goes into our own accounts, we pay 50/50 on rent and bills and thats that. Whereas my partner doesn't have to worry about money or if he needs something for himself, he can get it. If I didn't have a supportive Mum I'd never be able to afford anything more than rent, food and bills.
Whenever I bring up money and how I think it's quite unfairly split I just get brushed off, told I need to "understand the value of money" and working hard for it. I've said I think he needs to understand the value of childcare. Ideally for me we'd have a joint account which we'd both pay into and take out of for bills food anything DD needs. What do you think?
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ceceliajames · 18/05/2017 16:00
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