I started a new job 6 months ago. I made a few friends on the team but suddenly some of the guys started being more standoffish with me and not wanting to be alone with me.
It soon became clear that any male that speaks to me in a friendly manner has been accused of fancying me by the clique of 8 middle aged women who also work with me. They quite openly accuse the men of blushing around me, staring at me, touching my back.
This is absurd. They are just being friendly.
Now I only have gay men and the ones confident enough in themselves to ignore the gossip speaking to me. The others are unsurprisingly nervous speaking to me. No wonder when their every move is analysed and god forbid they dare smile at me.
It's professionally too. Apparently ANY male manager that compliments my work is only saying it because they fancy me. I only got the job because the interview panel fancied me. etc etc etc.
AIBU to speak to my manager -who OBVS totally fancies me- about this?
It's creating an uncomfortable atmosphere in the office. I feel my every move is being watched!
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Work colleagues accusing EVERYONE of being sexually attracted to me
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norainnoflowers · 18/05/2017 15:59
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