Hi there, this is my first post, I have been reading here for a while and there are such a lot of well rounded and thoughtful opinions and ideas here, I'm hoping that you can throw a few in my direction!
I have two grown up sons both with decent jobs, girlfriends and nice 'in-laws'. I am separated from their dad and live about a forty minute drive away...from everyone really..not just them but the whole family, both mine and my exes. Financially, there is no way I can move any nearer for the foreseeable future. So my dilemma is this. I feel like I'm struggling to keep the bond as I would like it to be. I mean, I'm obviously not expecting things to be as they were when the kids were younger, but it's got to the point that I recently found out that one of my sons was on holiday via a Facebook picture (him, his girlfriend, girlfriends parents and the dogs, how nice, grrrr!). I mean, I do know they love me really. They do remember Mother's Day and my birthday etc. And I am happy of course that they are happy. I would just sometimes like a little more! Both of the girlfriends are extremely close to their parents and the boys have gone in that direction too. I would really appreciate any advice / shared experience so I can deal with my feelings with a bit of balls rather than staying in the slightly lost / needy place I'm in at the moment. Thanks!
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menopausehag · 15/05/2017 21:21
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